Friday, May 19, 2006

maa salama

“Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.”

I hate this time of year in Egypt, inevitably there are going to be people leaving. That is the problem with getting to know x-pats (i don't know if i like that term...) because none of them are here permanently. This is the the hard thing about living overseas: the goodbyes.

I've met so many people from North America and Europe over the years and they just keep coming and going and they all become a blur of memories after while. Some have come searching to find out who they are, to experiance another culture, to study Arabic, to do service work, to teach English, on government buisness, or one of their parents might be Egyptian and want their kids to experiance their native culture. Some have showed an enthusiasm for being in Egypt, some never stopped complaining about how difficult it is to live here, and some don't know what to think of this place. All of them have something in common though...they leave.

They all come for different reasons and they leave for different reasons as well. Sometimes their assigned terms come to an end and it is a slow process watching them pack up and say goodbye. Sometimes they get kicked out of the country by the government. Sometimes they just go crazy.



















^^ This year is going to be the hardest. I'm losing so many good friends who have been with me over the years watching other people leave and now it's my turn to say goodbye to them.

7 Comments:

At 10:09 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

awww....
well im glad that I havent been here long so I dont have to say goodbye to anyone...
If i had to stay here longer and had to say goodbye to you lot i would be sooooo upset....
cause you guys have made this "experience" average... and believe me thats a good thing..
anyway.. see you sunday
p.s. (sorry coming round my house was so boring!... )

 
At 12:15 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey alice! i'm sorry you have to say good-bye to sooo many people in your life, especially good friends. i'm glad that we can still keep in cantact through the Internet.

 
At 1:10 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

can i have dat pic o all o us 2geda? hehe
btw..actually..this thing is kinda nice cuz like other ppl can comment 2 even if they dont have it..that kinda always bothered me on xanga. hmm..

 
At 3:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

hi! i think im going 2 steal that pic of us...i luv it. i agree with stephie...it's nice being able 2 comment even tho we don't have a blog thingy. c ya tomorrow!

 
At 10:11 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow. i havent seen you in soo long. i love the name of your site. i feel the same way ;) hahah
hopefully you will visit the lanc again hahaha
<3 morgan

 
At 9:20 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I loved your post. Its so true. So you'll be coming down right? When do you have to leave to go back? I <3 you!

 
At 4:36 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

that's exactly how i feel about living here, i just couldn't ever find the right words to express it.

i came here thinking that it wouldn't be long before i'd leave. i didn't think i'd be the one who'd have to say goodbyes. i was wrong.

i'm just lucky to have you and priscilla here with me. i honestly don't know how i would've survived this long without you two.

 

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